Tank is growing in nicely
Does new growth on the Hygrophila S that is closer to the substrate also show this damage?
- if you trim the longest stems & replant at substrate, & new leafs show same damage, i's unlikely to be physical closeness to the light source as main cause
- have you played with your EI dosing? I don't recall how hard /soft your water is or pH (these values impact bioavailability of nutrients)
- you can try increasing/adjusting CO2 (but monitor fish)
- you can try supplementing with a commercial fertilizer for a few weeks
I agree that it's good of MA to offer credit equal to the value you paid for the fish (often shops will only give a reduced credit)
(OTOH your kribs are acting ... well ... like kribs
... sometimes they are less dominating of the tank when spawning, but that is less common than the behavior you're seeing)
Some alternate fish might be:
Dicrossus filamentosus these fish often appear as dull grey fish in the shops, but really shine in planted tanks, unless you happen to find sub-adult fish, you'd need to buy in several to select male/female - in a 60 x 45 x 45, I'd likely try 5 or so to start with, they really are quite social fish & you might even be able to maintain this number longterm. Note that
D maculatus has a somewhat different reputation
Mikrogeophagus ramirezi these fish are highly line bred so finding resilient specimens can be challenging ... I picked up one group of electric blues that all died (shop offered a full credit, they'd had massive losses as well - interestingly, fish were fine for nearly 2 weeks, then the die-off began, only significant symptom was rapid respiration ... which these fish are prone to when stressed anyway, as "disease" progresses it becomes apparent it is disease & not stress), second group has been fine.
I'd been looking for nice rams for several months but shop offerings were balloon types (in all colors), massive "blue rams" that I can't decide whether it's hormones or hybrids (shape is all wrong!), or very nicely conformed electric blues ... I finally went with the blues.
They really are lovely fish & while they do that ram dance of 'aggression' it's very mild
Chocolate gourami - again you want to get a group of 8-10, look for a source that knows these fish - I find that once settled, they are really quite hardy (BUT again I have soft, acidic water so no effort for me in that regard), they have some really interesting behaviors but do seem to need a quite location - I see them much more out & about in the tank in the quiet corner than when I moved them to a more centrally located tank. At first they seemed to enjoy the larger tank (90cm x 45cm x 55cm vs 60 cm x 45cm x 55cm) but over several weeks became more retiring, I moved them back to their old (rescaped) tank & they settled in immediately ... a glance over at the tank always reveals fish, in the 90cm tank, a glance just revealed the empty glass box syndrome ... This group really is stunning, with purple & green iridescence in fins, striking contrast of chocolate & gold (fish in the profile photos are rather dull & not showing their colors)
Note that fish I've listed above, need to be the main focus, & other fish chosen to suit - all are less aggressive/slow eaters, so a rabid rasbora/tetra horde will be fat to bursting while these fish are just partway through their meal (I've not kept embers so no idea on their suitability).
Shrimp - adults in the tank are fine, I don't see many juveniles in tank, but pull them regularly out of the canister filter (Eheim) (I finally grew out the latest batch in a Spec 19 - I emptied this out recently & had 40-50 shrimp)
Dwarf Apisto's - most are more aggressive than the two I've listed but as always with fish YMMV ... spend time on the Apisto forums to get an idea of which species might do best in your setup
They are also generally harder on shrimp populations.