Also, okay, not a great topic but sometimes you kind of need to start again.
You get so much advice on forums, and it’s not cohesive or agreeable so it’s hard to know what to do in these cases. I don’t think you’re at fault. Neither are those who give advice 😅
Fundamentally, fish need oxygen, water, heat and food to survive. Im sure you are providing that as your fish are not dying immediately.
After this, fish need a mature system. They need stability. This way fish live for a long time. Plants do help with this, but so does patience.
If you’ve got a pond, go dip the net in and get some mosquito larvae. Yes, this could introduce something into your tank, but it never has for me, and we’re past that worry with yours 😉 if your fish are not eating what you put in, it’s not looking good.
I wouldn’t bother with any meds now I’ve thought about it; just small water changes (I have a 3l jug I use) keep an eye on flow, if you can aim the outlet to the surface to get more o2 in there, and better yet reduce the flow if you can. Fish don’t love being in whirlpools, it uses up their energy.
I suspect it’ll be fine, but if they all get a bit ill, clover oil.
The truth is these bacteria are in everyone’s tank in some kind of ensemble. Healthy fish beat these things all the time; your tank just seems to not have healthy fish. Maybe your LFS is at fault, btw.
If you do start again, I will next day delivery some filter media at my expense to you.